Spot the red flags. Protect your heart. Choose better.
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These are not obvious red flags. They are the feelings and dynamics that feel like chemistry — and cost you years.
Hot one week, cold the next. This inconsistency is not chemistry — it is intermittent reinforcement. The same mechanism behind addiction.
Physically there but emotionally elsewhere. You feel alone even when you are together.
You are the one initiating, planning, and holding the emotional weight. He receives your effort without matching it.
Plus 4 more — and exactly what to do about each one.
It is not bad luck. It is not your taste. It is a pattern — and patterns, once understood, can be changed.
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